trying to figure out my sound

so yeah im trying to figure out what i want to sound like, beyond just the acoustic guitar. im not sure yet but so far im leaning towards the sigur ros/radioheadian style and / or the my bloody valentine style of caressing people or at least leaving gaps in the music for people to be able to involve themselves in it for an interaction rather than a listening session thats the main thing i want people to get involved in the music i make so i want it to have those open holes in it. but yeah im not sureabout it. i like the writing ive been doing i think it has potential and i think if i apply that to some kindof music that really has the real potency im looking for then it could be a lovely marriage.